Root cause of sex taboos in India
Hey ! I am diksha from India and from a very long time I wanted to convey my thoughts on what I feel is the main cause of outgrowth of lecherous feelings in opposite sexes and this strong desire to have a sexual intercourse which might also result in abusive sexual crimes against both women and men.
As many people would already know , in our country we have all boys , all girls and coed schools. Certainly the number of students enrolled in only boys or only girls schools is less than coed . But “have you ever thought what goes inside the mind of those handful of students who have never sat with the girl , never worked with girls and who have never shared sitting spaces with the opposite sexes” ? Naturally they feel awkward and uncomfortable but above all they feel inquisitive.
But inquisitive about what ? It’s about the sexual intercourse , about each others biological structures, they wish to explore and know more. But why? simply because they have never even experienced sitting with a girl till there teen age ( 16 to 17) and now when they get freedom finally, they have a stronger sexual drive.
On the other hand in coed schools, students have no such desires as they have studied with them , worked with them , have supported them and have a lot more respect for the opposite sexes.
“This is also quite natural as they have learnt about each others bodies under the same roof (sex education)”.
Hence, as a conclusion I implore to the government to put attention on this issue and try to obtain some more data on the same . All what I have mentioned is as per my understanding and thoughts . But I really want people to comment on what they feel about this .
At the end I will leave you with a suggestion question , “ Do you think that subjects like home science should be made compulsory for boys for few months ?